成语退避三舍的感想
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发布时间：2022-04-22 00:16
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热心网友
时间：2023-07-06 12:42
退避三舍是一种计谋，是一种智慧。正如古话所言退一步海阔天空，退一步有的时候可以得到更多， 对待人因为敬重所以退避三舍，但别误以为我是在害怕。
在生活中如果有人对我们退避三舍，我们也应该秉着学习和谦逊的态度，一味自大和自以为是只会害了自己。
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春秋时期，晋国发生内乱，重耳逃出晋国开始了将近二十年的*生涯。他一路先后*翟、卫、齐、曹、宋、郑等国，除了少数几个国家之外，大部分诸侯国都不怎么待见这位晋国的*公子。
后来重耳来到了当时最强盛的楚国。在此他受到了非常隆重的接待，楚成王甚至用对待诸侯的礼节招待重耳。这让当时落魄*了十几年的重耳受宠若惊，在一次宴会上，楚成王半开玩笑半认真地说，如果重耳回到晋国继承君位，会如何报答自己。
重耳回答说“如果真有那么一天，今后如果万一我们在沙场兵戎相见，我将为您退避三舍。”这就是退避三舍的由来。
当时楚国的大将子玉听到了重耳的话，他认为重耳出言不逊，我们楚国如此礼遇你，你却想着怎么和我们打仗的事。于是他请求楚成王杀了重耳，结果被楚成王拒绝。
公元前636年，*在外将近二十年的重耳回到了晋国，登上国君之位，他就是春秋五霸中的晋文公。回到之后的晋文公励精图治，又遵循齐桓公的“尊王攘夷”的老路寻求称霸中原，由此引发了与楚国的矛盾。
虽然晋文公很注意不直接与楚国发生冲突，但是背后的小动作也从来没有停过。由于晋楚两国都志在中原，那么矛盾就不可避免。
双方最终在公元前632年走到了兵戎相见的一步，在开战之前，面对咄咄*人的楚军，晋文公以兑现承诺为由，让晋军从陶丘主动后撤九十里（古代行军三十里为一舍，所以退避三舍就是退兵九十里）。
楚军见晋军后退，以为对方害怕了，马上追击。晋军利用楚军骄傲轻敌的弱点，集中兵力，大破楚军，取得了城濮之战的胜利。
热心网友
时间：2023-07-06 12:43
春秋时候，晋献公听信谗言，杀了太子申生，又派人捉拿申生的弟弟重耳。重耳闻讯，逃出了晋国，在外流忘十几年。
经过千幸万苦,重耳来到楚国。楚成王认为重耳日后必有大作为，就以国群之礼相迎，待他如上宾。
一天，楚王设宴招待重耳，两人饮洒叙话，气氛十分融洽。忽然楚王问重耳：“你若有一天回晋国当上国君，该怎么报答我呢？”重耳略一思索说：“美女待从、珍宝丝绸，大王您有的是，珍禽羽毛，象牙兽皮，更是楚地的盛产，晋国哪有什么珍奇物品献给大王呢？”楚王说：“公子过谦了。话虽然这么说，可总该对我有所表示吧？”重耳笑笑回答道：“要是托您的福。果真能回国当政的话，我愿与贵国友好。假如有一天，晋楚国之间发生战争，我一定命令军队先退避三舍（一舍等于三十里），如果还不能得到您的原谅，我再与您交战。”
四年后，重耳真的回到晋国当了国君，就是历史上有名的晋文公。晋国在他的治理下日益强大。
公元前633年，楚国和晋国的军队在作战时相遇。晋文公为了实现他许下的诺言，下令军队后退九十里，驻扎在城濮。楚军见晋军后退，以为对方害怕了，马上追击。晋军利用楚军骄傲轻敌的弱点，集中兵力，大破楚军，取得了城濮之战的胜利。
故事出自《左传·僖公二十二年》。成语“退避三舍”比喻不与人相争或主动让步。
英文
Retreating about Thirty Miles as Condition For Peace
During the Spring and Autumn Period (770-476 B.C.), Duke Xian of the State of Jin Killed the crown prince Sheng because he had heard slanders about Sheng and believed them. He also sent his men to arrest Chong Er, Shen Sheng and believed them. He also sent his men to arrest Chonh Er, Shen Sheng's brother. Hearing the news, Chong Er escaped from the state of Jin, remaining a fugitive for more than ten years.
After innumerable hardships, Chong Er arrived at the State of Chu at last. King Cheng of the State of Chu treated him with high respect as he would have treated the ruler of a state, believing that he would have a vright fuure.
One day, King Cheng of the State of Chu gave a banquet in honoudr of Chong Er. Suddenly, amid the harmonious atmosphere of drinking and talking, King Cheng of the State of Chu asked Chong Er. "How will you repay me when you return to the State of Jin and become its ruler one day?" After thinking for a moment, Chong Er said, "You have plenty of beauties and attendants as well as jewelry and silk cloth, and the state of Chu abounds in rare brides and animals. What treasure can the State of Jin boast having to present to your majesty?" King Cheng of the State of Chu said, "You are too modest. Nevertheless, you still have to show your gratitude to me in one way or another, I presume?" Smiling, Chong Er answered, "If I should be fortunate enouge to return to the State of Jin and become its ruler, the State of Jin would be friendly to the State of Chu. If, one day, there should be a war between the two states, I would definitely order my troops to retreat three SHE (one SHE is equivalent to thirty LI. The LI is a Chinese unit of length equivalent to 1/2 kilometre. And, therefore, three SHE is about thirty miles.) as a condition for peace. If, under that condition, you were still not reconciled, I would have to fight with you."
Four years later, as might be expected, Chong Er returned to the State of Jin and became its ruler. He was none other than Duke Wen of the State of Jin famous in ancient Chinese history. Ruled by him, the State of Jin became increasingly powerful.
In the year 533 B.C., the Chu troops and the Jin troops confronted each other in a battle. Faithful to his promise, Duke Wen of the State of Jin ordered his troops to retreat about thirty miles. After retreating, the Jin troops were stationed at Chengpu. Seeing that the Jin troops were retreating, the Chu troops thought that the enemy troops were afraid, and began chasing them. Taking advantage of the Chu troops' arrogance and their talking the Jin troops lightly, the Jin troops concentrated their forces and inflicted a crushing defeat on the Chu troops, thus winning the victory of the battle of Chengpu.
This set phrase, "retreating about thirty miles as a condition for peace," is derived from the Chapter "The Twenty-second Year of Duke Xi" in ZuoZhuan, the famous commentary by Zuo Qiuming on The spring and Autumn Annals. The idea of this set phrase is to give way to somebody in order to avoid a conflict.
热心网友
时间：2023-07-06 12:43
春秋时候，晋献公听信谗言，杀了太子申生，又派人捉拿申生的弟弟重耳。重耳闻讯，逃出了晋国，在
外流忘十几年。 经过千幸万苦,重耳来到楚国。楚成王认为重
耳日后必有大作为，就以国群之礼相迎，待他如上宾。 一天，
楚王设宴招待重耳，两人饮洒叙话，气氛十分融洽。忽然楚王
问重耳：“你若有一天回晋国当上国君，该怎么报答我呢？”
重耳略一思索说：“美女待从、珍宝丝绸，大王您有的是，珍
禽羽毛，象牙兽皮，更是楚地的盛产，晋国哪有什么珍奇物品
献给大王呢？”楚王说：“公子过谦了。话虽然这么说，可总该对我有所表示吧？”重耳笑笑回答道：
“要是托您的福。果真能回国当政的话，我愿与贵国友好。假如有一天，晋楚国之间发生战争，我一定命
令军队先退避三舍（一舍等于三十里），如果还不能得到您的原谅，我再与您交战。” 四年后，重耳真
的回到晋国当了国君，就是历史上有名的晋文公。晋国在他的治理下日益强大。 公元前633年，楚国和晋
国的军队在作战时相遇。晋文公为了实现他许下的诺言，下令军队后退九十里，驻扎在城濮。楚军见晋军
后退，以为对方害怕了，马上追击。晋军利用楚军骄傲轻敌的弱点，集中兵力，大破楚军，取得了城濮之
战的胜利。
故事出自《左传·僖公二十二年》。成语“退避三舍”比喻不与人相争或主动让步。
热心网友
时间：2023-07-06 12:44
其次，是关于“退让”。当对自己情况不利的时候，晋文公选择了“退让”以避其锋芒；而对我们而言，首先就是一种谦让，其次是合理的以退为进是一种好的方法；最后是对情势的准确判断，三思而后行。
热心网友
时间：2023-07-06 12:45
联想到诚信问题,诚信要讲,但不能在任何情况下都讲.
尤其在国家利益面前,诚信实在是微不足道.由此想到近来流行的关于诚信的争论.我认为个人做事还是要力求诚信的,但防人之心不可无,涉及较大的利益时更要避免轻信.
