有关执着的英文故事
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发布时间：2022-05-04 10:56
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时间：2022-06-21 08:20
出离并非遥不可及，而是和你的生活紧密相连，如果你想知道自己是否具有出离心，可以以这种方法检验：在过去对你很重要的一件事，现在是否对你一点都不重要；过去可以轻易激怒你的事，现在你是否毫不在乎。如果是的话，那么你就从这里出离了。所以，在那些看起来琐细、繁缛的生活里，都自有佛道在，只要你有一颗向佛的心，都可以达到出离，都可以靠近或达到佛徒所向往的境界。
当你不再执着一件事物或一种习惯，它就失去指挥摆布你的能力，你也就获得了自由。但要达到上面所说的境界，你就必须出离所有的事物，出离所有心灵的痼疾和杂念，才能获得彻底的自由。这里所说的所有事物，当然不止是那些看得见摸得着的东西，也包括很多细微的东西，抽象的东西。而且，看你是否彻底出离，心灵的出离最为重要，出离由外部转而内部，最后由心获得悟道，这是出离的关键所在。
因此，在人生里，你有多少内心的执着，就有多少痛苦；要摆脱痛苦，你必须从所有的执着里出离。如果试图以改变外在的世界，来追求完美，是永远徒劳无功的，永远会有你意想不到的事情出现，来烦扰你的凡心。当你生气的时候，你应该问一下自己，为什么会生气，是否会因为出现了与你期待相反的东西。其实你的期待，就是你所执着的东西；你的一切痛苦和烦恼，不过是因为过于执着。
过于执着的人，往往是一个完美主义者；但是，这个世界上几乎所有事情，都不会轻易俯首听命，不会事事顺着你。要让他们达到你所希望的样子，即使花上一辈子的时间，也不一定能达到。很多人试图创造完美的世界，不过他们最终都被证明失败了，事实上，只要把你的心境稍作调整，一切都会看起来很完美。
也许你看过这样一个童话：一个被劈去了一小片的圆，想要找回一个完整的自己，于是到处寻找自己的碎片。由于它是不完整的，因此滚动得非常慢，从而领略了沿途美丽的鲜花，和虫子们聊天，也充分地感受阳光的温暖。它找了许多不同的碎片，但都不是它原来的那一块，于是它执着地找寻。直到有一天，它终于找到了自己的碎片。然而，作为一个完美无缺的圆，它滚动得太快了，错过了花开时节，忽略了虫子的亲昵。当它意识到这一切时，它毅然舍弃了历尽千辛万苦才找到的碎片，又恢复了原貌。
Only be in Buddhism lining , be away from take place having very various import and making an explanation, come across many person in life , the Buddhism taking place is away from for make of being far away from the world , resemble like that the Xidao crown prince had once made right away, this frightens not yet ready people away easy to make an explanation , Buddha does not intend to shave off every follower's head. According to my make of, take place be away from are detached being holding a kind of to the world or the world,as long as realizing the attitude needing one kind of life, other from east to west not fast form essential points.
Take place being linked together be away from the life being not allowed to reach, but being with you not at a distance is rapid and intense , check that if you want to know are at odds with the community if self have out , can with this method: In very important matter going over to you, if one point is not all important to you now; Thing being able to enrage you casually in the past, if you do not give a damn about now. If speaking about yes, you have been away from from taking place here. Self all there is Fo, as long as you have a heart to Buddhist , can reach out therefore, within those seem trifling , overelaborate life, be away from, being able to draw near or reach realm yearned for by Buddha disciple.
Think that your no longer tenacious piece of object or one kind of habit , it lose the ability commanding to manipulate you right away, you have gained liberty also right away. But need to reach realm said by higher authority, you must go out of being away from all object right away , out being away from all intelligent aeipathia and distracting thoughts, ability gains thorough liberty. Object said by here, certainly not stopping is that those are noticeable touch the thing being having , also include many minute things , the abstract thing. And, look at if your be away from completely take place, intelligent taking place is away from being most important, take place being away from the reason outside turn to inside, the at last realizes the truth from heart acquisition , this is the key location being away from out.
Therefore, you have inward tenaciousness of number within life, have the number agony right away; Need break away from , agony your must be away from from take place in tenaciousness all If trying to change the external world , coming to run after consummate , is to be a wasted effort forever, be able to have your unimaginable things to appear forever , come to disturb your ordinary heart. When thinking that you are angry, you ought to ask an once that why self, will be angry , being going to be because of having appeared or not and you expect the contrary thing. Your expectation, is your tenacious institute thing in fact; Your all are pained and be just vexed, because of excessively tenacious.
The excessively tenacious people, sometimes is a perfectionist; But, this nearly all in the world things, everything does as your wish all not likely casually submissively , not likely. Need to let them reach appearance hoped by you , can reach not ncessarily even if having spent time for lifetime. Many person has been tried to create the consummate world , they have all been testified failure only ultimately , has been seemed very consummate in fact, as long as taking your state of mind for adjustment , all cities slightly.
You had maybe looked at a such children's stories: One is split the circle having got rid of one small piece , is wanted to find back one entirely self, seeks self fragment thereupon everywhere. Having rolled very slowly therefore , have had a taste of the along the way beautiful fresh flower, and insects chat thereby since it is imperfect,kindness experiencing sunlight also sufficiently. It has looked for a lot of different fragment , has been not that piece that it turns out to be but, it looks for thereupon tenaciously. Until one day,it has finally found self fragment. It has rolled very quickly , has missed a flower opening a season but, as a perfect circle,very intimacy having ignored an insect. When realizing all these as if it be it, it have given up the after innumerable hardships just now found fragment resolutely, appearance having restored a plain.
热心网友
时间：2022-06-21 08:20
Two Frogs: An Inspirational Short Story about Perseverance
Two young frogs fell into a bucket of milk. Both tried to jump to freedom, but the sides of the bucket were steep and no foundation was to be had on the surface of the liquid.
Seeing little chance of escape, the first frog soon despaired and stopped jumping. After a short while he sunk to the bottom of the bucket and drowned.
The second frog also saw no likelihood of success, but he never stopped trying. Even though each jump seemed to reach the same inadequate height, he kept on struggling. Eventually, his persistent efforts churned some milk into butter. From the now hardened surface of the milk, he managed to leap out of the bucket.
The moral of this little inspiring story:--Those who don't give up and persevere may be in for a pleasant surprise!
2.A Carpenter's Gift: An Inspirational Story about Perseverance
Once upon a time two brothers who lived on adjoining farms fell into conflict. It was the first serious rift in 40 years of farming side by side, sharing machinery, and trading labor and goods as needed without a hitch.
Then the long collaboration fell apart. It began with a small misunderstanding and it grew into a major difference, and finally it exploded into an exchange of bitter words followed by weeks of silence.
One morning there was a knock on John's door. He opened it to find a man with a carpenter's toolbox. "I'm looking for a few days work" he said.
"Perhaps you would have a few small jobs here and there. Could I help you?"
"Yes," said the older brother. "I do have a job for you. Look across the creek at that farm. That's my neighbor, in fact, it's my younger brother. Last week there was a meadow between us and he took his bulldozer to the river levee and now there is a creek between us. Well, he may have done this to spite me, but I'll go him one better. See that pile of lumber curing by the barn? I want you to build me a fence - an 8-foot fence - so I won't need to see his place anymore. Cool him down, anyhow."
The carpenter said, "I think I understand the situation. Show me the nails and the post-hole digger and I'll be able to do a job that pleases you."
The older brother had to go to town for supplies, so he helped the carpenter get the materials ready and then he was off for the day.
The carpenter worked hard all that day measuring, sawing, nailing.
About sunset when the farmer returned, the carpenter had just finished his job. The farmer's eyes opened wide, his jaw dropped.
There was no fence there at all. It was a bridge... a bridge stretching from one side of the creek to the other! A fine piece of work handrails and all - and the neighbor, his younger brother, was coming across, his hand outstretched.
"You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I've said and done."
The two brothers stood at each end of the bridge, and then they met in the middle, taking each other's hand. They turned to see the carpenter hoist his toolbox on his shoulder. "No, wait! Stay a few days. I've a lot of other projects for you," said the older brother.
"I'd love to stay on," the carpenter said, "but, I have many more bridges to build."
