《飘》的读后感
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发布时间：2022-04-22 18:27
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热心网友
时间：2023-07-01 22:06
我觉得《飘》的最大魅力在于深刻描述了男女之间因为情感的错位而产生的一种扣人心弦、揪心抓狂式的感受。每每男女主人公一而再再而三地错过彼此的那种情景出现就特别想骂他们傻，其中最令人心里堵着的地方就是小说的结尾，一方幡然醒悟，而另一方却去意已决。也许每个看到这里的人都会产生这样的想法：要懂得珍惜真正爱你的人。而这恰恰最能够直抵自己对待情感的态度和状况。每一个人都渴望爱情，你爱着一个人，你是多么的希望他/她懂得珍惜，对不对？另外一个人在爱着你，他/她同样也希望你懂得珍惜，难道不是吗？如果你和对方的爱出现了错位，那么作为第一种情形，你会向他/她推荐，看一下《飘》，甚至还特别想把最后那个章节翻给他/她看：珍惜我吧，再不珍惜，我可要走了哦
如果是第二种情形，他/她就会向你推荐，看一下《Gone with the wind》，而且也是多么想把最后那个章节翻给你看。因此，在我看来，天底下的爱情就可以归结为N个错位的情爱交流，只有真正找到彼此相爱的人的时候，才能够使得双方的位置准确而且才能奏出美妙的爱情之歌。
那么，什么才是真正的彼此相爱的人、真正值得厮守一生的人呢？并不是所有你爱的人，也并不是所有爱你的人都值得真正的珍惜并与之结合。爱斯佳丽的人何其多啊？但是真正值得她依靠和相守的却只有瑞特一个，但她却不那么懂得珍惜，而斯佳丽一直爱着的、眷恋着的那个阿希里却并不适合她。于是，我们遇到几乎人人都会有的困境：面对我爱的人和爱我的人，我们该怎么选择呢？
有这么一句话：聪明的女人会嫁给爱她的男人，而愚蠢的女人才会嫁给她爱的男人。在理论上，这是非常经典的判断。而事实，在恋爱里，没有谁是聪明的，其实全都是傻瓜。在爱情里，只有运气好的傻瓜和运气糟糕的笨蛋而已。一个傻瓜爱上了一个笨蛋，却居然发现这个笨蛋也是爱着自己，这简直是可遇不可求的一对——笨蛋配傻瓜，当然他们是幸福的。
而在《飘》里，像瑞特这样在爱情上表现得极端聪明游刃有余的成熟男人，换一个角度看，他其实是个大笨蛋（斯佳丽就更不用说了），为了这么一个女人真心付出但是一直都没有能获得她内心多年来像对待阿希里一样的爱。但是面对爱情，我们还能说什么呢？爱情的奥秘，只可意会不可言传。每个人，只要你用心经营，同样会有一曲自己的爱情之歌，希望它少些哀怨和忧愁，多一些欢乐与幸福。
恢弘悲壮的南北战争都只是成了爱情故事的大背景而已，其中令人荡气回肠、哀怨曲折的爱情啊~并不会随着老南方的远去而GONE WITH THE WIND~
前不久刚看好了<飘>,好不容易从图书馆抢来的,因为一个版本只有一套,害我老是图书馆门没开就去排队了,嘿嘿,足见还是挺不错的一本书.
总的来说么,看<飘>就好象是看电影一样,很是能吊人胃口.听说<乱事佳人>好象是根据飘改编而来,那我也要好好的补上这一空白了.想必也是直得一看的电影.在＜飘＞中，我记忆中似乎是好象全部的人都垮了，最后只剩思嘉了．在书中我所喜爱的人中还剩这么根独苗，还是有点安慰啊．．．
可是我一遍读下来就很难有兴趣再次去读第二遍了．不象是＜傲慢与偏见＞那样我已经读了好几遍了，两者都是以情节取胜的．何以有如此不同呐．最大的不同是前者似乎是以悲剧结束的，＜傲慢于偏见＞则是用大喜剧收笔的，让人总的感来还是皆大欢喜．而在＜飘＞中一个个鲜活的人物一个个从笔下消失，有喜欢的有不喜欢的，让人有一种渐渐冷漠的感觉．思嘉花了那么多的努力到头来还是一场空，失去了好多：青春的幻想，亲朋好友的拥抱，但最后还是保住了心灵中最后的支柱．给人的感觉好象是泰戈尔所写的：人们默默的承受着悲痛，但还是坚持着自己的事业，个人的感情如同暗流那样在我们看不到的地方默默的流淌着.当我们观察各个工作领域时，我们看见有人在做生意，有人在梨田，有人在搬运重物；而在这一切之下，死亡，悲痛与损失，就好象看不见的潜流，每天都在奔流着，＿＿＿清清静静，从未被人打扰过．如果这些东西打破控制，变得表面化，那么所有这些工作都会立即停顿下来．个人的悲痛在下面奔流，上面是一条坚实的石路，职责的列车载负着人类，隆隆地响着飞驰而过，除了在指定的车站以外，不为任何人停下．也许，事业的这种残酷性，到头来竟会是对人的最冷峻的安慰．我人为这是对＜飘＞的最好的诠释了，塔拉，一切都是为了塔拉，到最后塔拉还是成了思嘉最后的安慰，最冷峻的安慰.书中最后的结尾还是写到思嘉终于回到往昔塔拉，寻求安慰和勇气．
我无法在写下去了，那种是不可名状的，在没有人发明那个词字之前，我选择把它埋在心底．把希望放在明天，从明天寻求安慰的思嘉，注定站到了最后，最后的孤独女英雄．
（每次写东西我都选择听歌，这次是Never grow old下次写下我在书中所喜爱的任务：）
热心网友
时间：2023-07-01 22:06
已经失去的东西拿不回来的，也不必想它了，如果一定为这些无可挽回的事情怨天尤人，那就等于自己*自己。
在单位图书资料室无意中发现了《飘》，这可是我很想看的一本书了，上大学那会觉得原本太长了，自己没去挑战读它，而今有本缩写的版本，终于可以一赌它的风采了，便爱不释手。回家后吃完饭，就钻进被窝里，也不怕胖了，在被窝里，看着窗外的雪花，欣赏着《飘》，享受着生活。
书中有两个女人的典范——郝思嘉和韩媚兰，告诉我们：不同的女人有不同的征服力，不同的女人有不同的味道，但都有自己别具一格的风味。
故事一环扣一环、波澜起伏地向前发展。人物的语言绘声绘色。各具特点，显得真切感人。思嘉所经受的，所拥有的家庭、爱情、战争的打击和挫折不是一个普通女人所能经受的。在婚姻上她是失败的，但也许正式因为这种失败，更加突出了在她内心深处那盲目的爱情，从未动摇的爱情。
现代社会对女人的要求越来越高，坚强、独立、积极，是现代女人的必备素质。女人也有追求美好的权利，可以使自己变得风情万种。像思嘉不能真正拥有瑞德那样，如果一个女人不能拥有自己深爱的男人，不要紧，她还可以爱自己。主人公是那个时代的宠儿，美丽勇敢坚强独立，同时有着天生的贵族的傲慢。
我们要学习她坚忍不拔，处事不惊，俏皮机智，这些都是需要生活的洗练，需要对社会环境和人文环境的深刻认识，需要对生活非常个人化和人性化的理解。别人是不能代替你来思考的，倘若成为别人的衍生物。
时代呼唤美貌和智慧并存的女性，让我们女性越来越美丽吧！这也许是自己喜欢读她的原因吧。因为自己是一个太普通的女孩，虽然有着娇好的面孔，但是太自卑了，因为没有一技之长，因为自己太笨了，太懦弱了，太------缺点太多了，现在必须学会坚强，一切都得靠自己呀！
永不绝望,永远与残酷的现实抗争,做一个新乱世佳人!
热心网友
时间：2023-07-01 22:07
初读《飘》时,对小说的女主人公的感觉是矛盾的——既有些讨厌,但又不得不敬佩她.讨厌的是为了功利,为了钱等不择手段,而选择婚姻.甚至是不惜损害自己的妹妹,抢走了她的未婚夫;讨厌她面对白瑞特的爱时,那愚蠢的固执.但她的勇敢与坚强和那份艰苦创业的精神又不得不让我敬佩.
再读时,突然间感觉:斯佳丽那种对金钱和土地的狂热追求是可以理解的.在那种战争爆发的*的社会,她一个女子却要独自承担起养活包括自己情人和情敌在内的一大家人的重担,那是多么繁重的担子啊!况且,在亚特兰大,作为一个妇女,平时出门就也许会遭到别人的非议.可她,为了担负起此重担,不得不与黑人做生意.
斯佳丽就像一个小孩子一样,对自己想要的东西异常执着,而对自己所拥有的东西却不屑一顾.斯佳丽认为自己爱的是阿希礼,可是阿希礼却不爱她,就像白瑞特说的那样,阿希礼是个君子,只是生在了一个和他格格不入的时代.他还是用旧世界的游戏规则生活,只会撞得一鼻子灰.可是斯佳丽却不明白,越是得不到,难以实现的,就越追求不舍.可是,到最后才发现,她最爱的人一直就在自己身边却不曾意识到,等到明白时,却为时已晚.但斯佳丽就是斯佳丽,她没有绝望,她只是告诉自己:Tomorrow is another day!斯佳丽,始终就是这样一个充满生气,充满斗志的人.
小说中的另一个人,也是我最喜爱的人——白瑞特.白瑞特有着良好的家世,却并不以此为荣.他有着锐利的眼睛,有着聪明的头脑,他能很快在乱世找到自己的处身之道.他的勇敢,执着,他的机智果断,都成为让人喜欢的因素,还有他放荡的外表下那颗专一的心也使人喜欢.他爱斯佳丽,保护斯佳丽,宠爱斯佳丽,照顾斯佳丽,他希望让她事事称心,可这些却被斯佳丽拒绝了,于是他一直耐心地等待,等待他爱的斯佳丽也能同样爱上他,可是再永恒的爱也会有磨光的时候.就这样,当他的女儿离开他时,他的心死了,再也回不来了.于是,他选择了离开.
读《飘》时,对斯佳丽面对困难所表现出来的大无畏精神佩服;对她有时为达目的而不择手段而反感;对她对阿希礼迟迟不肯放手的愚蠢固执而气愤;对白瑞特对斯佳丽的默默付出而倍感愉悦;对白瑞特最后的离开表示惋惜……
很容易被书中的人物所感染,从中学到了不少东西.就像斯佳丽每次面对困难时的乐观,有时自己遇到不顺的时候,也会轻轻地对自己说一句:"Tomorrow is another day!"
热心网友
时间：2023-07-01 22:07
For the beauty of si this person thing, my felling is self-contradict, is to dislike the but again and have to respect and admire her.She is a person for having the character very much, loving two men in her whole life, but she didn't an is an understanding of.If she understands the rare gift of a, that she will not love him;If she understands the rui especially, that she will not lose him.She always is to be ungrateful to the rui especially of, she is just not to stop the rare gift of prince- a who make track for oneself's in a dream.She is just to think the characteristics that loves by herself that the rare gift of a have, she just does a gorgeous clothes, letting rare gift of a put on, being in love with him and then.But fact is, she love just that clothes.
For her, I am to have to admire of, admire her strong, admire her to the persist of land, admire her ability under the ecation that that in environment under let go of before be subjected to the farmland stem live, admiring the speech that she can neglect the society but founding own business.Her life contain a few souls, an is her mother.His mother is a madam with expensive very able and gentle and soft typical model, is the person who she respect and admire most .But, mother typhoid for saving the person but ising infect, die.Another, is her more than ten in the last years favourite of person- a rare gift.Her ability stands up in the adverse circumstances, have very greatly a part of reason is a rare gift of a .She the rare to a gift persists unusually.Still have a, is the meilanli .More than ten years that struggle together in, the meilanli has already become her life in the indispensability of a part.
I feel that the beauty of si is like a child, persisting to the thing that oneself want unusually, but to the thing that oneself own but disdain to on attend to.An at try very hard to make the oneself happy, a push the happiness to leave constantly again, push the lover toward abyss.
The beauty of si is loving is a rare gift of a , but,a rare gift but don't want her.Be like the rui to especially say of, the rare gift of a is a gentleman, just wasing born in an and he inharmonious ages.He still uses the rules of the game of the old world life, will bump only rejection.The beauty of si doeses not understand the a to hope the gift, so she loves him, think that exhausted whole wayses get him, but when she recognize pure he, she did not love him any further.
The beauty of si is a contradictory body, can have again who not is a contradictory body?She is in the life of road up all the way walk, be when she face the difficulty, she chooses the accolade, be when she face the responsibility, she chooses to carry, can be she face loving choice is, at first, he choose to hoodwink the oneself, being her to recognize finally pure, to face, but is already the hour already late.But she, at incapable is a dint, will tell the oneself, tomorrow is new day, everythings will like tomorrow, the Tomorrow is another day.She is all an in the whole story full of fire, be filled with the person of the will to fight.I enjoy most of, would be her this" Tomorrow is another day.".Was filled with the hope forever, be filled with the will to fight, can never give up, can never despair.This spirit, the most worthy of I study.So, whenever I meet the difficulty, mood not good, I will tell the oneself then:" Tomorrow is another day.".The another in book make the female that me admire very, would be the meilanli .She is an outside soft inside just of female, she almost owned the whole virtue that female can own.Positive if the rui especially says of, she is a that a handful of expensive madam that he saw win.She is strong, she is patriotic, she uses her heart love nearby all people.When her husband fight, she silent in the rear guard the hon, do the business of her what lies in one's power, be the north guy to beat in the city and she again soon about to deliver child, she still the town settle, being the next stem of the her body infirmity and nobodies to live soon didn't When the rice eat, she similar to beauty of si , let go of past ecation for be subjected to and sense of superiorities, trail weak of body next stem live, be she see the beauty of si kill a north guy, she did not be rattled, but help to bury the corpse, searching the money, wiping the blood stain, being the war finally end, north guy soldier whom
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she hate bitterly before arriving at her door request to look after and themselves also have no excessive food, she still fulfil her ability the ground helped them, because she hopes to also have the north guy woman of a good heart afar to her just at homing a rice of husband eat.
Such strong female, the but again is a such gentleness kind and considerate.She persists the ground to believe the rare gift of beauty of si and a's, even someone see with own eyes they hug together, also persisting the ground to believe them, protection si beauty.She knows perfectly well pain and sufferings that own body can't bear again to grow, but persist the ground to want to hope the gift to give birth to a child for the a again, end leave she loved the close relatives of the lifetime.
Is really too great, looking at themeilanli, make me thought of much more Chinese ancient times females of, they are also such dociles, work hard in spite of criticism, assist husband and bring up children, then silent unknownly old go to and depart from this life.
In the whole book, I is a rui for the person that like most especially.He is brave and persists, he can love the beauty of si so and deeply for more than ten years constant.He wants to protect the beauty of si , the doter si beauty, look after the beauty of si, let her everything feel happy, but the beauty of si refused.He says, again the time that eternal love also will b out, but his love, drive beauty of si, drive rare gift of a , was b out by the adherence that the si beauty is stupid of.His heart, die.When his daughter leaves him, his heart, return any further not to come.He says, he has always been to have no that patience shear the ground pants and sew and like, then tells the oneself this is similar to lately, just deceive yourself as well as others.Ground is ground, return and don't go to any further, even make allies, the top still stays the crack, is not originally any further that.
